Breaking the incel curse

I want to be clear on something before I write the beef of this article. Everyone is naturally good at something. Everyone is naturally bad at something else. That's just a cold, hard fact of life. Sure, I was always good with the babes. But I was always really, really…

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Bourbon and Mermaids

There's an old joke that goes "I'm not an alcoholic. An alcoholic goes to meetings." Well, I can honestly say I'm not an alcoholic. Yes, with a straight face. I drink almost daily. Sometimes I don't. I don't drink on the days when I go to the gym. Now of…

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A wimp asking out a babe

"Steve" is a wimp. He likes things in life, but is too chickenshit to pursue them. When he likes a girl, he doesn't know how to approach her. When he wants something in life, he doesn't know how to gun for it and hopes it magically appears on his plate.…

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Why I love cruises

I talked to one of my besties last night. He and his wife just got back from being on the road. They got to see Mount Rushmore, something we haven't seen yet. On our list. We started talking about vacations. He's not the cruise type. He thinks they'd be boring.…

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Learning to read others’ motives

There are secure people. And there are insecure people. Of course, most of us are somewhere in between. But if you want to have a better life, you're best off hanging with people in the former group. I'm obsessed with getting better. I like hanging out with like minded people.…

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My painting process – start to finish

I'm a simple man. I like simple things and I prefer to follow a repeatable process than wing things. You'll see me painting the same painting over and over again, with slight modifications each time. That's how you get better at things. By repetition. Bruce Lee said something like he…

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On Players and Marriage

The club was packed. I hadn't been to Goth clubs in the West just yet. Only knew the ones in the South. And at the time (90s), the Goth clubs had hot babes. Maybe it was the cocaine keeping them slim. Years later, I'd visit a few Goth clubs on…

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Make her feel like a woman

"Tonya" used to submit her ex-boyfriend wrestling. So it kind of turned her on that I'd screw around when we play fought. I'd immediately pin her, then make her clap her hands. I'd tell her "so, you like to clap your hands" as she'd helplessly clap her hands. Sometimes, I'd…

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Then find someone younger and cuter

A quality woman has no problem replacing a man. Assuming she's at least attractive and has some common sense, she'll be over a man in a month or two. Sometimes even a week because all attractive women have orbiters. That's a cold, hard fact of life. So ladies, this article…

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