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July 8, 2020 Self-improvement

Struggling with depression checklist

Contrary to popular opinion, most depression is treatable. Of course you don’t hear about that because for one, a lot of people, including the super strong drug company lobby would lose a shitload of money. And for another, you’ve already heard my rant about how the media profits off your

July 6, 2020 Musings

Men – don’t ever lose your frame

I could tell you the exact moment the one who got away got away. I lost my frame once, and it was enough that it was over. We dragged it out longer than we should have but I knew I had lost her. I was really good at manipulating girls

July 1, 2020 Musings

You get the face you deserve

I was taking my dog for a walk. An older lady, had to be in her 60s, walked by swiftly carrying a shopping bag. She was beautiful. No, not in a sexual way, but in a different way. Her face had wrinkles, but they were all in the right direction.

June 29, 2020 General Art

Do you really need to be inspired?

You know why most artists starve? Because most artists either lack a work ethic or decent social skills. I know this from experience. My wife and I over the years have gone to tons of art galleries and have met countless artists. As ruthless as this sounds, that’s another reason

June 16, 2020 Musings

Why happiness as a goal is a bad idea

“But I just want to be happy.” You’ve heard many, many people utter this meaningless phrase. And were they happy? Of course not. You know why? Because it means nothing. Absolutely nothing. Happiness shouldn’t be the end goal. You should shoot for accomplishments. You know what happens when you encounter

June 1, 2020 Musings

Adulting is awesome if you play your cards right

A lot of adults I talk to long for their childhoods. When I was a kid though, I couldn’t wait to be an adult. You got nobody telling you what to do. You get to do what you want. You get to stay up as late as you want and

May 30, 2020 Musings

In search of sea monsters

You gotta love the old times. What we didn’t know back then, we filled with imagination. Nowadays, we’ve lost that side of our psyche. We’ve become too logical, which leads to too dry. So unfortunately, people have replaced myths and legends with politics. And of course, politics brings out the

May 28, 2020 Misc

Social media should come last

If you’re a creative type, are you spending almost as much time on social media as you do creating? If so, you got a social media addiction. You need to fix that. Social media is a tool. And it should only be seen as such. I log off of it

May 24, 2020 Musings

On Schadenfreude, Jealousy, Misogyny, Bitterness, and Bliss

I’ve been in too many bands to count. Some simply one off bands that played a party. Some lasted for years. Musicians come and go. You have disagreements over everything from minor things to money to babes. It’s usually direction though. Seemed like a good idea at the time. Then

May 21, 2020 Musings

Brighter, more livelier colors

Last night on my Instagram account, I was musing about how hard it is to write lyrics when everything is going well. What am I supposed to write about? I got a great relationship with my wife. My son is doing great. And my net worth rose significantly so far