Stairs vs the Elevator and why it matters

My wife and I love cruising. We did our first cruise in our 30s and felt like besides the children, we were the youngest people there. Most folks on cruise ships are older. Maybe it's because cruising is a lazy vacation. You got everything setup for you. You don't really…

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“No one cares” is freeing

My previous article was on how the universe doesn't give a flying fuck about you. To make life even more impersonal, the vast majority of people don't either, including a lot of people you care about. Whereas that at first sounds absolutely awful, it's reality. And you know what? It's…

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The universe doesn’t give a flying f- about you…

...and the sooner you realize that, the better. I'm not going to get into the metaphysical aspect of it all. I'm just talking the physical world. The universe doesn't care about you. The universe doesn't even know you exist. The world isn't fair. It's not meant to be. And every…

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Fear vs risk and why it’s important

Fear paralyzes. It prevents you from improving. It prevents you from doing a lot of things. I get it. A little bit of fear is evolutionary. You don't walk up to a bear and pet it. For some odd reason, those folks died off. However, you can't go the opposite…

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When in doubt, ask

I never claimed to know it all. Life is one big learning experience. You keep learning new things until you drop dead. Well, some of us do. Some folks love to waste their lives. But if you're reading this blog, I can safely assume you're the former and not the…

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Not everyone has Free Will

"Jayden" from the outside seems highly successful. Big ass house. Multiple degrees from prestigious universities. Sends his kids to private schools. The problem is, the outside world doesn't know Jayden as well as I do. He's fucking miserable. His wife treats him like shit and has made him cry on…

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Recovering from a Psychic Vampire attack

Almost thirty years ago, I had my first misfortunate encounter of a psychic vampire. Afterwards, I felt like I had lost a part of my soul and it took quite awhile to recover from that attack. If you have no idea what I'm talking about, read on. You need to…

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Down to 13 meals a week

There are certain things that get better with age. However, metabolism isn’t one of them. Awhile back, I took a good, hard look in the mirror and saw a few pounds of belly fat that could definitely go away. Playing the odds, it’s OK to store fat elsewhere. On your…

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