“You don’t like strong women!”

When someone insults you, two things are usually possible. One, more than likely, they are projecting their own insecurities at you. This is the majority of the time. And second, there's actually truth to what they're saying. This is actually a minority of the time. I've spent years being introspective.…

Continue Reading “You don’t like strong women!”

Elemental personalities

It’s funny. You go into a bar or a club and you get asked about your sign. Now, I’m not going to get into astrology. I’m somewhat a rational man. I don’t believe in astrology. But I don’t have a problem with it either. Believe whatever you want to believe.…

Continue Reading Elemental personalities

Geez, get over it already

I don't care if you're a jock, a nerd, a stoner, or whatever. If you're cool to me, I'll be cool to you. I used to work with this IT guy. I'll call him Brutus. Brutus was super smart. And very nerdy. He'd come over at least several times a…

Continue Reading Geez, get over it already

“It’s my fault”

2020 was a difficult year for most people. For me, it's been my best self-improvement year ever. 2020 exposed people's true colors. It also exposed a fault I have. I'm not always the world's best judge of people. Life is complicated. You'll get really good at something. Then realize you…

Continue Reading “It’s my fault”

Men value looks over degrees

I don't care how much money a woman makes. To me, there's no difference whether she makes $25k a year or $250k a year. So what? I'd pay the bills anyways. And to be honest, I don't care if she'd prefer to be a housewife. Actually, I'd prefer that. Take…

Continue Reading Men value looks over degrees

Is leaning in the physical manifestation of a man not keeping his frame?

There's a guy I like on Twitter whose name is Rivelino. He's a controversial figure. A lot of people I like love him. A lot of people I like hate him. Which is great. My friend D and I always said the following about art. If someone sees your art…

Continue Reading Is leaning in the physical manifestation of a man not keeping his frame?

It’s all perspective

In sixth grade, I lived in an entirely different world. My junior high had a tradition where the sixth graders would play tackle football against the eighth graders. The PE coaches will all be there. For their amusement. As a sixth grader, the eighth graders were all eight feet tall…

Continue Reading It’s all perspective

“You’re so lucky you’re talented”

Mom enrolled me in piano lessons and I was terrible. Absolutely awful. I picked it up at a snail's pace and read notes like I was stupid. You know why? I wanted to play football (American). My heart was on going outside. Every chance I got. I compiled football stats.…

Continue Reading “You’re so lucky you’re talented”

Summoning Bloody Mary

"We have to do it after midnight. She doesn't come out before then." "What's going to happen?" "She either tells you the future, you just see her eyes, or she gets really mad at you for summoning her and she scratches your face." My girl cousins discussed who would be…

Continue Reading Summoning Bloody Mary

Solid process especially helps reckless types

Two things you'll never see on this blog - dishonesty, and me stealing someone else's images. I can't stand stock images either. Especially when someone who claims to be a "lifestyle blogger" uses them. If you're a lifestyle blogger, that means you've lived an interesting life. Right? Therefore, you should…

Continue Reading Solid process especially helps reckless types