Solid process especially helps reckless types

Two things you'll never see on this blog - dishonesty, and me stealing someone else's images. I can't stand stock images either. Especially when someone who claims to be a "lifestyle blogger" uses them. If you're a lifestyle blogger, that means you've lived an interesting life. Right? Therefore, you should…

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Recklessness vs Overthinking

I wrote a post over a year ago about too much thinking and not enough living. Since then, my Twitter account has grown a bit. Which is good and bad. Now I got so many people replying that I miss about half of them. I imagine when it gets even…

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Verbs are where it’s at

In college, I had two creative writing professors. I took creative writing seriously. I'd rank Speech and Creative Writing as the top one and two most important courses in college, respectively. Whether you like it or not, you need to learn how to talk. Humans are a social species. Like…

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Of course smart men have the advantages with the babes

When I talked about finding someone younger and cuter, I called out poseurs. I can't stand poseurs, because I can't stand dishonesty. It's like, I was talking about investing on Twitter and some jackass said he never made an investing mistake. Really? Yes, some people really are simply lying douchebags.…

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Breaking the incel curse

I want to be clear on something before I write the beef of this article. Everyone is naturally good at something. Everyone is naturally bad at something else. That's just a cold, hard fact of life. Sure, I was always good with the babes. But I was always really, really…

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Bourbon and Mermaids

There's an old joke that goes "I'm not an alcoholic. An alcoholic goes to meetings." Well, I can honestly say I'm not an alcoholic. Yes, with a straight face. I drink almost daily. Sometimes I don't. I don't drink on the days when I go to the gym. Now of…

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A wimp asking out a babe

"Steve" is a wimp. He likes things in life, but is too chickenshit to pursue them. When he likes a girl, he doesn't know how to approach her. When he wants something in life, he doesn't know how to gun for it and hopes it magically appears on his plate.…

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Learning to read others’ motives

There are secure people. And there are insecure people. Of course, most of us are somewhere in between. But if you want to have a better life, you're best off hanging with people in the former group. I'm obsessed with getting better. I like hanging out with like minded people.…

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On Players and Marriage

The club was packed. I hadn't been to Goth clubs in the West just yet. Only knew the ones in the South. And at the time (90s), the Goth clubs had hot babes. Maybe it was the cocaine keeping them slim. Years later, I'd visit a few Goth clubs on…

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Make her feel like a woman

"Tonya" used to submit her ex-boyfriend wrestling. So it kind of turned her on that I'd screw around when we play fought. I'd immediately pin her, then make her clap her hands. I'd tell her "so, you like to clap your hands" as she'd helplessly clap her hands. Sometimes, I'd…

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