Yesterday, I did a photoshoot of one of my 5 models. I drew her for about an hour as well. And of course, we had wonderful conversations.
I’m married of course so I’m no longer looking for women. But I enjoy talking to beautiful women in their early 20s because it gives me an idea of what’s going on between men and women.
I also get a sense of what’s wrong with today’s young men.
Well first off, we already know this. Young men don’t know how to be men. They’ve been either raised by single moms or indoctrinated into this feminist crap in public schools where they believe that there’s a masculine conspiracy called the patriarchy. Yes, there really are people who believe this bullshit.
So they feel guilt about being men to the point where they suppress or deny their masculinity. And of course, it leads to anxiety, depression, and unfortunately also suicide.
So I am your counter. I’m here to tell you that it’s ok to be a masculine male. And only masculine males get the hot chicks.
The rest get the ugly ones or they get addicted to pornography.
Looking at things backwards
Looking at things backwards, I’ll tell you what doesn’t work. We all know this – hot chicks don’t like nice guys.
And I’ll explain why…
Nice guys are boring
Hot chicks know they’re hot chicks. Sometimes, they’ll be humble and pretend that they don’t know.
They know.
So they know they can have standards. Regular chicks have to settle for what they can get. Just like regular men have to settle for what they can get.
Hot chicks, like high value men, get to pick.
Do you think hot chicks want a boring ass guy? Of course not.
Women like excitement. And nice guys are boring.
Nice guys are afraid to get what they want
I’ve told you the story of “James” who made way, way less money than he should have made. He was afraid to rock the boat. He was afraid to stand up for himself. So he got walked on at work and got paid shit, despite being super smart and deserving much, much more.
You see, hot chicks instinctively know this. They know that nice guys will never achieve their potential.
When I say never, I mean it. Nice guys want things. But they don’t have the balls to go get it.
Hot chicks like men who have the balls to get what they want.
Did James have the balls to get what he wants? James, is 99.9% of nice guys. Except James was lucky. He came from a third world country that still had arranged marriages and ended up with a good woman. Odds are, if you’re a nice guy, you won’t get so lucky. If you’re a nice guy, you’ll either have to settle for Chad’s leftovers after they’ve aged a decade or you’ll get addicted to porn.
So how to not be a nice guy
Glad you asked.
First things first, start looking good. That means lose the gut. Stop having noodle arms and start looking like a man.
Dress better than the average person. The average person dresses like shit. Don’t be the average person.
Then, either fix your resume or start a business. One or the other. Choose, then commit.
You’re underpaid. You already know this. You’re going to go out, start getting other offers. And rather than leaving your current position, you’re going to do a power move.
You’re going to talk to your boss and say you need 20 minutes of his or her time. (I’m going to type as your boss is a male I don’t want to type extra words).
No, you’re not going to ask for 20 minutes of his time. You’re going to tell him you need 20 minutes of his time. You see the difference?
Then, when he makes 20 minutes aside, you’re going to have an envelope in it with a letter of resignation.
You’re going to tell him that you really like this job and you’ll miss (specifically name the people you like) when you leave. But you just had an offer that pays X. You give him an ultimatum. He either matches X, or you hand him the envelope.
Either way, you win. Congratulations. You just learned how to get what you want.
Once you’ve done this, you’re going to start seeing how you can apply this to other aspects of your life.
Everyone else want you to have that. But you want this. You will not settle for that. You will only get this because this is what you want.
“But this offends people.”
Well fuck them. That’s their problem.
You want this and you’ll no longer settle for that. So you’re going to get this, and you’ll put in the work to get it.
Hot chicks will notice
After you’ve left, Sarah, the cute chick in Finance, heard that your former boss threw his book against the wall when they found out that you’re leaving. Your replacement is a fucking idiot and doesn’t know what he’s doing.
The old you would have thought to yourself “oh cool.” The new you would say “I need to contact Jane because Jane has Sarah’s number.”
The new you makes moves. The old you is passive.
You take Sarah out for drinks. No, not coffee. Drinks. Huge difference.
Coffee is for platonic friends. Drinks are for getting laid.
You’re well dressed. You’ve also put on a little bit of muscle and lost some weight around the belly since the last time you saw Sarah.
No dinner. No movie.
You drop her off at her place and plant a big kiss on her neck. Not her cheek. Her neck.
And you tell her that you’ll see her Thursday because you’re busy next weekend.
Some of other guys you used to work with will passive aggressively say “you’ve changed.” Drop those losers. But Scott, the guy who secretly ran the fantasy football pool? You stay friends with him because he’s a player. You can work out together and also share notes about hot babes.
Nice guys are friends with everybody. Winners are friends with other winners. Notice the difference.
And one last thing
Nice guys are afraid of their sexuality. Chad values his sexuality.
Huge difference here.
Nice guys call their genitals “junk.” Chad calls his genitals “the family jewels.”
Notice the language.
If you meet a guy who calls his genitalia “junk,” immediately unfriend him. He’s not someone you want on your team.
There are no exceptions to this rule.
If you call your genitalia “junk,” I want absolutely nothing to do with you. You need to have the same standards.
The term “junk” was specifically made up by male feminists to make men insecure about themselves. They hate themselves. So they want you to too.
And lastly, be honest.
Hot chick – “were you visualizing me naked?”
You – yes.
And once again…
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again…
My writings benefit women just as much as they benefit men. I’ll keep my conversations with my models private. But one problem that more than one of them have voiced – there is a serious lack of masculinity today. Men of my generation (X) are masculine.
The younger generations? Masculine men are a minority.
Hot chicks like masculine men. Nobody likes simps, especially themselves. And simps don’t want you to like yourself either. So cut them off. You’re no longer friends with any simp.